More Than Two, Second Edition
More Than Two, Second Edition: Cultivating Nonmonogamous Relationships with Kindness and Integrity
Pros
- Comprehensive coverage of modern polyamory styles and structures
- Updated content incorporating attachment theory and relationship diversity
- Practical guidance for both newcomers and experienced practitioners
Cons
- No quick-fix solutions - relationships require dedicated self-work
Essential Reading
Whether you're a seasoned polyam veteran or just beginning to explore non-monogamy, the second edition of "More Than Two" arrives as your comprehensive companion through the intricate landscape of CNM. Authors Eve Rickert and Andrea Zanin masterfully weave together attachment theory with real-world wisdom, creating an invaluable resource that speaks to both heart and mind.
KTP vs Parallel
From kitchen-table polyamory to parallel relationships, this guide doesn't just ask "Can you love more than one person?" – it helps you understand the practical implications of that love. The book delves deep into the various relationship structures available, from hierarchical arrangements to relationship anarchy, while acknowledging that the path of consensual non-monogamy isn't always straight (pun intended!).
New Release of a Poly Classic
This updated edition particularly shines in its exploration of attachment styles and their impact on multiple relationships. Post the influence of Polysecure, and the drama around this books original co-author, Frankly Veaux, this latest version expands on the original concepts with a more modern perspective. If you're not familiar with the whole story behind this 2nd edition, we covered that in our post Best Polyamory Books To Read in 2024.
Whether you're navigating your first metamour meeting or restructuring your existing polycule, you'll find practical tools for building sustainable, fulfilling connections.
The authors don't shy away from the challenging aspects of polyamory, offering genuine insights into managing jealousy, establishing boundaries, and fostering honest communication.